Have you ever noticed that most people live with a do-have-be perspective of life? Meaning that they believe that if they do the right things, they will then have what they desire, and only then will they become the person who deserves those things. Basically saying when I have "success" then I will be "happy".
Do you know people who have set goals for themselves such as getting a specific kind of relationship? So they set out and do what they believe will help them find the "perfect" mate. They do things like work on looking good, sign up for internet dating sites, and follow all the dating advice they can in an effort to have the relationship that they desire. They believe that this specific relationship will allow then to be happy. Many people take it beyond just being happy and attach a whole list of things that they will be when they finally have that perfect relationship - they will be successful, loving, loyal, open, compassionate, a good lover, and a good partner...
But is that really true?
What would happen if you shifted the paradigm to be-do-have? By being happy, successful, loving, loyal, open, compassionate, a good lover, and a good partner, you will then begin doing things differently. This will allow you to attract into your life the same and you will have everything you dreamed of!
It is a different way of thinking, basically you become the person who will take the action to attract everything you desire!
Be Do Have
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